blanc on blanc

Die a little bit.

all white dinner party

Have you ever stumbled across snaps from this amazing party? It started in gaie Paree, many moons ago. Finally, it’s winded its way to Charleston.

Parisian diner en blanc dinner party

The dress code: blanc on blanc, m’dears.

The sustenance: BYOCP. Bring your own chic picnic, of course.

The reason: because life is short and why not?

The catch: the location is top secret until the day of!

diner en blanc

Will Charlestonians give Parisians a run for their $$, style-wise? Methinks yes.

Also, our buildings are old + cool too, y’all. Hampton Park? Middle of King Street? Four Corners of Law? Your guess is as good as mine.

Sparklers at Diner en Blanc

Sis boom bah- yay for sparklers! Snag your tickets now by clicking here. The fête is on Thursday, October 15 from 6 pm to 10 pm. Having FOMO? I know, I know. We can’t go because we have a big doozie elsewhere, but sip some bubbly for us! You can follow along at DEB’s Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook. Salut!



6 stunning ceremony concepts

Stunning ceremony concepts are few and far between, as current web culture promotes a rinse + repeat mentality that can totally squash innovation. For starters, I am definitely a fan of an exquisite floral arbor, as long as it looks like it belongs on the property. Aisle decor fashioned from stunning weathered wood planters or aging stone pots filled with blooms is a timeless way to set the tone of a wedding. For those who love a little head cover, perhaps nothing is more peaceful and composed than letting a historic church’s architecture be the interest at a ceremony. But beyond that?

For starters, here are a few top tips for creating a gorgeous atmosphere at your ceremony:

1. Think like a photographer: is what you’re creating going to be visible in the “shot”?

2. Scale is everything. Can your urns be seen by folks on the last row? Does that one central urn look like it’s coming out of the officiant’s head?

3. Candlelight is rarely an option. Lanterns, drippy tapers, and hanging votives only work for a ceremony slated for dusk or later.

4. Does everything you have envisioned translate seamlessly in a rain scenario?

5. You don’t have to sing every note you know. An arbor + urns + chair florals + aisle markers + bouquets + a petal toss is most definitely overkill. Pick 1 or 2 things and do them really well.

Ford Plantation ceremony

While designing for Bridget + Rob’s fabby Ford Plantation affair, I kept thinking about my antique demi-johns . . . then it dawned on me that upping the collection and filling them with French tulips would make for a fresh altarscape. I’d seen quite a few floral designers scatter petals on this lawn and (sorry!) it always looked like trash to me, because the bent grass is so incredibly perfect. A rustic trestle leg table and these blown glass wine flagons seemed like the perfect solution. | a bryan photo

Lisa Vorce ceremony

This ceremony designed by Lisa Vorce blows me away. The trompe l’oeil chair covers, the muslin draping, the exposed rafter beams, the antique hardwoods, and the simplicity of the altar area make it incredibly powerful. The all-white thang does’t hurt, either! I am not characterized by working with monochromatic looks- but I’d give my right leg to say this was my idea! Fab. | aaron delesie

lemon leaf ceremony

I had a blast working with Allie + Paul on their summertime bash at the William Aiken House, not least because they gave me 100% creative license. Their zippy spirits made me want to work with citrus, and what better accent then hundreds upon hundreds of fresh lemons? While the venue’s architecture is significant enough to stand (fairly) alone, what fun would there be in that? We bought punchy lemon umbrellas and had Blossoms Events wrap them in lemon leaf + fresh lemons on the vine, and we designed a massive lemon-studded garland + wreath to frame out an existing pair of carriage house doors. Talk about cheerful, different, and memorable. | gayle brooker

Topiary altar ceremony

There is something so classic + crisp about a simple garland of seeded eucalyptus, flanked by two ligustrum topiaries. I love the minimalist angle of this ceremony from Hey Pretty Wedding.

Live oak covered in flowers

I’ve seen a few images like this circulating on Pinterest, and I just love it . . . what a fresh, uncontrived take on meshing fresh blooms and an old live oak. We are almost always met with a super prominent tree (or 10!) where we put on weddings . . . may have to use this concept sometime soon! | The Green Vase




Brides Magazine August/September 2015 – featured!

BRIDES Magazine is an arbiter of exquisite taste, beautiful weddings, and solid advice- so of course we love it when they tap us to contribute to expert advice columns. After a decade in the business, I have so much to share- but no time to create yet another workshop (thus adding to the workshop oblivion!), since our focus is first + foremost on our incredible clients. That being said, it’s fun to connect with vibrant writers and Brides Mag staffers to put foundational advice out into the world.

In the article below, we highlight a few of our top secret tricks to making wedding day prep smooth + seamless. Granted, it’s not rocket science- but without these little amenities, the day can be a little harried. From whole hog steamers (Jiffy is our fave) to full length mirrors (Target run, anyone?) to paper towel (Viva is the best!), the best supplies on hand can keep anxiety + tears at bay.

The ultimate point? The devil’s in the details.

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11 Little Tricks for a Stress Free Wedding Day

There may be a million little tricks for a stress-free wedding day, but these 11 will certainly keep you in good stead as a digestible mashup from us + other top industry pros + friends of mine, Lisa Vorce, Brooke Keegan, Maria + Kelly of Ritzy Bee, and Audrey Hurst.

I love when Real Simple comes calling, especially when penned by my long-time schoolmate + NYC writer extraordinaire Elizabeth Passarella. The content is so spot-on and sleek, and just makes you kinda wanna fill a bathtub up with back issues and bathe in all the OCD goodness. Weird mental image- but truth.

If you’ve missed our contributions to Real Simple in the past, take a gander:

1. One of our first Indian weddings + favorite clients’ work of all time was in Real Simple Weddings, before it was shuttered. LOVED that mag, and that’s how I got to know my good friend and Country Living EIC Rachel Hardage Barrett, a TN native like Elizabeth Passarella and myself.

2. Keep Calm + Party On shares some of our ways to entertain easily + breezily during these sweltering summer months.

3. How to Plan a Destination Wedding in Real Simple shared our simple advice on the first 5 steps you need to take- so crucial.

4. 16 Tips for an Effortless Outdoor Party in Real Simple is just the tip of the iceberg of our wealth of knowledge after over a decade in that biz- but a good read at that! Call us if you want the real skinny. Ha.

Enjoy the below tips + tricks on making your big day fun- that’s the whole point y’all, it’s not supposed to be this frenetic, harried experience- that’s why you have “us”!

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