Showstopper Sparkle : Engagement Ring Round-Up

Non-surprising confession: I am a sucker for all things sparkly. Celebrity ring close-up paparazzi shots may be the only thing that keeps my subscription to US Magazine active, and my Safari jewelry bookmarks are over-run with the likes of Harry Winston, Van Cleef, and Graff– to name  few. It’s kinda sick.

One the one hand, I love when our brides stick to the classics- an exquisite emerald cut stone with baguettes or trillions, a giant Asscher cut on the teeniest band filled with prong-set diamonds. Then the edgy bauble devil in my other ear whispers sweet nothings about Blake Lively’s rose gold + pink diamond moment or a sliver of emerald in Erin Fetherston’s engagement ring, and I swing moodily back toward high drama.

Just to whet your whistle, I’ve rounded up my latest cravings so you too can drool over Edwardian milgrain detail, pavé halos, semi-mounted radiants, and more.

Also, here are a few top tips as you research (in stealth or in the open):

1. If you haven’t heard it by now, get your sweet little ostrich head out of the sand. The five Cs are cut, color, clarity, carat weight, + certification. A heady place to start is on the most respected certification site, GIA. If that’s too technical for you, try this site. It can’t hurt to know your terms- from the girdle to the table, from a cloud inclusion to a feather inclusion.

2. Consider a “fancy” shape. I know, hysterical- kinda an 80s word. Round diamonds are the most common (who wants common?) and that drives the price point (classic supply + demand). Stepped stones (emerald cut, Asscher cut, Ashoka like Reese Witherspoon’s, etc.) have to be significantly bigger to appear “same” as their counterparts to the naked eye- thus ratcheting up the price point again. Great fiery brilliant-cut fancy shapes to consider are the timeless cushion (whether pillow-shaped in ratio or more rounded/fat), the radiant (often mistaken for a rectangular Princess cut), and the pear (remember Selma Blair’s character Vivian Kensington’s Harry Winston pear diamond in Legally Blonde? Yeah, me too).

3. Always be thinking about the “friends” you’re going to stack with abandon down the road. Click here for our article with sources + top tips on fabby stacking bands to keep your sparkler company. Personally, I’m still all about a micro-pavé band (or 10) from someone like Martin Katz.

Kwiat diamond engagement ring

Super classic emerald cut excellence from Kwiat.

Erica Courtney Madison Engagement Ring

Erica Courtney nails it every time. The detail!

Shreve Crump & Low diamond ring

Shreve, Crump, & Low for the wine with this monster beauty.

stunning engagement ring by Penny Preville

Penny Preville knocks it out of the park with this semi-mount “suspended” cushion cut stunner.


stunning engagement ring by Erica CourtneyErica Courtney again- I have a thang for her.

stunning engagement ring by Kwiat

Kwiat‘s Edwardian angle on one of their original antique designs- love the bit of sapphire.

stunning engagement ring by Harry Winston

Harry Winston can do no wrong with this lovely brilliant oval surrounded by prong-set round brilliants in its halo.

stunning engagement ring by Single Stone

Single Stone is doing some amazing things these days – curating both vintage pieces and making new to look vintage.

stunning engagement ring by Penny Preville

Penny Preville again- but in a very geometric + architectural setting. Hint: plays nicely when the right hand has a cocktail ring that is more organically-shaped and not squared-off at all.





8 favorite kids’ wedding table ideas

Kids’ wedding table ideas are a darling way to keep the wee ones occupied while your guests mingle + nosh. We simply adore having children at weddings, and think it adds a sweet element to your memories of the day- plus, aren’t weddings all about family, anyway? Little wedding guests should be considered with the same care + level of hospitality extended to adults, but pint-size it for maximum impact.

Top tips for creating knockout kids’ wedding tables:

1. Lure them in:

A colorful table with whimsy + treats will lure them in and keep them sane for at least, well, 15 minutes. Verticality is big- puffed cotton candy cones, curling silly straws, sky-high lollipop centerpieces, and even live goldfish (yep, I did it) can draw them in + get them excited to park their backsides tableside and engage.

2. Seat them in style:

If the children range from 3 to 12, consider a regular-sized table with adult-sized chairs and a tabletop full of fun. If they are all ages 2-5, say, consider a kid-sized table + shorter chairs or stool from either your local rental company, World Market, or Target. While the picnic blanket tea party makes for a darling editorial, it’s not advisable for a real wedding scenario.

2. Keep ’em busy: 

You know the drill- washable crayons, washable markers, and chalk are your art tool “friends”- most children in my world (including my two!) will draw + doodle for a looooong time. Activity kits are all the rage + the way to go if you want to step it up a notch: they entail a pre-packaged picnic basket or mini tin suitcase filled with goodies + double as a parting favor. Temporary tatoos, stickers, glow-in-the-dark anything, sunglasses, Dollar Store etch-a-sketches, and simple helium or non-helium balloons are just a handful of ideas to include in a stylized way at the table. Consider a color theme that looks analogous to your elegant tables + follow the bouncing ball. Literally.

3. Make it easy on the mamas: 

Lollipops, jawbreakers, bubblegum, and sour candies are a bit of a risk factor with choking, age range issues, and general nastiness. Choose unwrapped candies to cut down on “table trash” and on children needing help opening a dang Tootsie Roll for cryin’ out loud. Hire a few fabulous sitters and let them help corral the kiddos so the parents can cut a rug.

4. Have a “next phase” plan.  

There is a window in which this little group can stay engaged. When it closes, you’re toast. Just as guests appreciate milling from cocktails to a beautiful dinner to dancing to a late night hang, little people want the same fluidity. Gather a few iPads or snag some DVDs and a VCR and create a tent-within-a-tent, a teepee tent, or another spot within the wedding venue to lay out lovies, blankets, bottled waters. Then, let the sitters and the parents kick their feet up for just a moment.

Check out our past posts on kids’ wedding table ideas, kid-friendly activities, + children’s place settings, and more . . . or simply scoop up the ideas below for an impactful kids’ wedding table for your big day.

Kids' Activity Suitcase + Kids' Wedding Table Ideas via + | #kidsweddingideas |

Activity suitcases like this one from Brides are SO exciting to open, compact, and brilliant for quick clean-up before the above-mentioned “next phase plan”. The kids’ table from Babble on the right hits all the high notes with a simple color scheme, child-height chairs + table, scalloped gable boxes, and balloons for verticality + happy faces. Kids' Centerpieces ( + Kids' Wedding Table Ideas via @catchmyparty | cotton candy | #kidsweddingideas |

You know we love us a stack of cake stands- and these pink mercury ones don’t disappoint. The Lego people could double as place cards or, as here, a fun takeaway. {via Trawler Girl} I die over the Tom Collins glasses filled to the brim with sprinkles and stuffed with cones of old school real deal cotton candy. {via Catch My Party}Kids' wedding table ideas (via @simplesong) + DIY Hopscotch via | #kidsweddingtableideas |

There’s nothing in design that Suann Song of Simplesong can’t nail – like this darling table she created for her son Jaden’s party. The kraft-hued everything sets a color scheme, and the details (the wishbones! the twiggy pencils!) are too cute. I couldn’t resist including the DIY hopscotch via Paperblog on the right- how easy + simple to set up in the corner of your fabby tented party or somewhere in a garden on your venue property, yes? Chalkboard Kids' Table via @britmorin + Kids' Table setting via @projectwedding | #kidsweddingtableideas |

I’m here to tell you that chalkboard paint is your friend. If you still feel like blackballing it from your crafting toolkit, you can easily pick up chalkboard cloth to make a road-themed or school-themed table top in a jiffy. {via} The plastic beach buckets filled with snacks + the wheatgrass centerpieces are to-die-for cute for kids’ wedding tables for any coastal wedding. {via Project Wedding}

Seated Dinner Tablescapes – The Latest Tabletop

Chances are you’re having a seated dinner for your wedding, and you’re scouring the web for tabletop inspiration in the form of detailed + thoughtful tablescapes. Never fear, mes amies- I’ve done that for you. Remember you’re dealing with an official fine china nut- the kinda girl who never even considered not having fine china in a mashup of several different patterns with cachepots and soup tureens to boot! I think I even own an épergne. Gold star for the girl who knows what that elusive but fabulous animal is.

Some rainy Saturday, you can likely be found giddily scanning teacup bar code after dessert plate bar code with abandon throughout your registry shops, theoretically snapping up all the Herend + Anna Weatherley you can find for your in-home tablescape fabulosity. Another weekend may find you perusing the warehouses of your local event rental companies- which likely leaves you a bit dismayed at the grim selection, especially in comparison to your registry experience. We can fix that, too!

Top tips for setting a stunning tablescape for your big day:

1. Study the images below:

. . . and of course turn to our lookbook for inspiration, and obvi stalk our Pinterest if you’re not already. Note how layered and nuanced the below place settings are, and how that makes them incredibly impactful. Ask yourself questions like- are we pouring 2 different wines? How about champagne? Do I like mismatched glassware? Do I want a layered plate look? Can I track down an amazing softly colored napkin or perhaps implement a pattern? What will my menu card look like and what will its placement be? I could go on + on- that’s why you need a “me“. (wink)

2. Narrow down what matters most.

If you’re not getting married near a major city with fine tabletop rentals, consider the option of box-to-ship. Several high-end rental companies will ship you “light” and non-fragile items like flatware . . . a great example of a game-changer tabletop addition that takes up the space of a shoebox shipping-wise.

3. Call in the big guns.

If you’re a tablescape aficionado, you’re going to have to call for reinforcements. White-with-gold-rim china just isn’t gonna cut it; don’t worry, I get it. Casa de Perrin, DC Rental, Snyder Rentals, Eventworks, and Small Masterpiece are just a few of our favorite creative partners across the country to tap for fine china collections, delicate crystal stemware, and fabby flatware.

4. Don’t be afraid to ask. 

You may not be the only bride asking for custom whitewashed Marie Antoinette chairs. For example, if you’re having a 250 person seated dinner and you’re willing to commit a reasonable financial piece toward your dream rental item, ask a few different rental companies if they’ll invest on your behalf and still sub-rent to you at a fraction of the actual investment. You know what they say: if you don’t ask, the answer is always “no”.

Tablescape + Tabletop inspiration via | How to set dinner service

I love the simplicity of the LH tablescape, with its delicate garland + such. The right hand calligraphy infographic is the perfect image to screenshot + save so you know how to set a table properly. Bright + happy wedding tablescape | design: David Stark | photo: Aaron Delesie | featured in @marthastewartweddings | find more inspo @

If I could only pick one designer in my field who inspires, it would have to be David Stark. This tablescape he designed for his client blew me away with its charm + whimsy. Shot by Aaron Delesie, this wedding was featured in Martha Stewart WeddingsInspired blue tablescapes via @marthastewartweddings + Valentino | find more inspo @

The LH image speaks volumes in its simplicity: gold flatware on deep blue linens topped with crisp white china and a powder blue napkin- all surrounded by such quotidian items such as cabbage + radishes . . . perfection, thanks to Martha. Valentino nails it (natch) in the RH image with his gorgeous chinoiserie collection of Chinese porcelain, his monogrammed napkins, and his denim blue Battenberg lace overlays. Here is another one of his famous fêtes– le sigh. Peak of chic.Horn flatware + cork charger tablescape on kiwi linen | design: @calderclark | photo: A Bryan Photo | location: Lowndes Grove #greenwedding #charlestonwedding

We had a ball with our bride Meg layering kiwi upholstery-weight linen with cork chargers, flaxen hemstitch napkins, horn handled flatware, linen-wrapped votives, and simple stemware. I used antique wood weights as table numbers for a touch of rustic flair. via A Bryan PhotoWhite tablescape via @marthastewartweddings + pale green tablescape via @verandamag | find more inspo @

These two have been in my style files for a long time. The hint of blue on the left keeps the overall look crisp, and I love the flatware, the table numbers printed on the table, the dip-dyed votives, the heavy-lipped modern charger, and the simple rocks glass as water glass. (via Martha Stewart Weddings, shot by Petra Bindel) On the right is a snap from one of my favorite French weddings as featured in Veranda. The Ladurée goodies are spot on and add a hint of pistachio to an otherwise white-on-white scheme, and the chocolate velvet ribbon band + lamb’s ear elevate the already stunning Bernard Maisner calligraphy menu. Heart. Classic + traditional tablescape shot by Rylee Hitchner | find more inspo @

I love this image from Rylee Hitchner. The soft blue patterned charger and gold calligraphy menu card + place card complement the trailing blooms + golden roses perfectly. Pink + Gold tablescape via + swiss dot cream-on-cream setting via @josevilla


The pink, gold, and gray table setting shot by José Villa is a total win for several different reasons, not the least of which is the beautiful charger (carried by several companies like Event Rentals Unlimited, if you want to track it down!) On the right is one of my favorite tone-on-tone snaps from Pretty Stuff, if only for the dotted swiss effect the linen gives the neutral tablescape.


Romantic Candlelit Wedding Round-up

Nothing tops a candlelit wedding flooded with tapers, votive light, lantern light, + tiny twinkle lights.  I have yet to meet a bride who doesn’t say within moments of speaking for the first time: “oh, and I want tons of candlelight- just boatloads.” Aww- bless your heart, don’t we all?!

We most often find ourselves on a private property in the middle of nowhere, building out a wedding from the ground up- our favorite kind. The blank slate is a designer’s dream, and it gives me the opportunity to think like an architect, developer, general contractor, + decorator all-in-one. Creating truly experiential weddings is way easier without four walls + a bunch of silly rules to hem you in.

That being said, wind is NOT our friend. Folks tend to think we fear rain the most, so let me set the record straight. For starters, we don’t fear anything- we’ve meticulously planned + pre-arranged for plans A, B, C, and D. Rain has never ruined a wedding of ours; if anything, it’s an ice breaker and a bit of drama to add to the existing magic.

Wind, on the other hand, is my mortal enemy. Cue my Dark Sky app, which golf pros + planners alike use to call the ball (ha- pun intended) and to check wind velocity. Creating elegant + seamless weddings up and down the coast makes for a constant “breeze”- which is positively delightful for everyone but those of us trying to keep candlelit weddings aglow. Let’s just say we keep Bic’s stick lighter division in business.

A few of our favorite sources for candlelit wedding bits + bobs:

1. Tapers

Mole Hollow rocks the Casbah with nuanced colors, multiple sizes in thickness + height, lovely customer service, and pretty packaging to boot. The candles themselves have this linen-like texture that we totally heart.

Creative Candles is our absolute go-to, especially for their tall spindly skinny minnies + minimalistic diminutive glass taper holder cubes. Don’t miss their color Paris Gray- it’s the best.

2. Votives

Jamali Garden is where we start when we’re digging deeply for just the right series of votive to flood every surface for that first layer or level of candlelight. Just don’t call with item-specific questions if you’re in a fragile state- they’re as New Yawk-ish as it gets and are almost comically terse on the phone.

Accent Decor either has it, or no one does. They truly stay on top of trends and have an über sleek site that makes shopping a breeze. To the trade only.

3. Candelabra

This is where it gets a bit sticky. There are plenty of hideous ones available for rent, but no thanks. I love the simplicity of super clean-lined glass ones, and of course antique burnished brass ones with a barley twist or simple design. The same goes for candlesticks, to be honest. If you’re really looking to invest, this may help:

Abigail’s is a to-the-trade-only beautiful tabletop company with some phenomenal china, glassware, and the like.

4. Lanterns

Be prepared to throw down. More is more with lanterns- in quantity used, height, quality of materials, + durability. We have the insider track on a decade’s worth of wholesale resources for lanterns, but we’ll be sharing those resources in an innovative + thoughtful way in months to come.

Restoration Hardware always stocks a range of about 5-6 types, like the Santorini that totally fills up one of our creative partner’s warehouses.

Pottery Barn is the good ole stand-by for rope handles, powder coated paint treatments, and a semi-coastal vibe.

Target  has their in-house line Threshold, which totally crushed it. I’m telling you, someone at corporate stole someone from Kate Spade or Tory Burch or somewhere legit because the patterns, textures, finishes, and colors are spot on.

West Elm has fresh, clean, simple lanterns for that candlelit effect that fills our dreams.

Top tip: scented candles at any affair where food is being served is not okay, period. You won’t want “Eau de Laundry” to cross paths with Kobe beef, k? Annnd- if we’re going there, it must be stated that 1982 called and it wants its mulberry-colored floating pillar ball candles back.

Here’s a roundup from fabby brides out there who swap (albeit amazing + memorable) al fresco dining, dancing under the stars, and ceremonies under ancient oaks for architectural detail, soaring ceilings, terra firma, and abundant candlelight.

Christian Oth Candlelit Wedding Christian Oth captured this golden candlelit wedding perfectly- just as expertly as Sean Connell for Christian Oth captured one of our candlelit weddingsCandlelit Wedding at Old Edwards Inn

At the Old Edwards Inn, we layered in beeswax candles for a textured + traditional vibe, shot by Tec Petaja and featured in Martha Stewart WeddingsCandlelit Wedding by Christian Oth

Once again, the CO team nails it. I love how simple + classic their bride kept her long estate tables, especially because she selected soaring skinny ivory taper candlelight. Candlelit Wedding shot by KT Merry

This Joy Proctor wedding shot by KT Merry boasts the classic uncut crystal candelabra I’d suggest if you’re going for that timeless candlelit appeal.Brides + Junebug Candlelit Wedding

The lefthand pic from Brides and the right-hand pic from Junebug Weddings both reflect the romance + drama of some serious candlelit estate table weddings.Elizabeth Messina Candlelit WeddingWhat makes this Elizabeth Messina-captured wedding work in particular is how young + fresh the white taper holders are in contrast to their pretty powder blue tapers. Love.

Kurt Boomer + Style Me Pretty Candlelit Weddings Kurt Boomer nailed the shot on the left- and the caneback chairs, trestle leg tables soft neutral palette, pea gravel, and delicate candlelight don’t hurt either. On the right is an image via Style Me Pretty that resonates with quite a few, perhaps because of the use of vintage bottles as candlelight holders. Chrissy Teigen Candlelight Wedding

This stunning tablescape was shot by Aaron Delesie at the wedding of John Legend + Chrissy Teigen, designed by Lisa Vorce. Pix like these make me want to stick to ivory tapers only, but I guess a girl’s got to branch out every now + then. More on that wedding via Huffington Post Weddings + Martha Stewart Weddings.Candlelit Weddings via Aaron Delesie + Apartment Therapy

Last but not least, I adore these two from Aaron Delesie (L) + Apartment Therapy (R). The soaring size of the tapers on the left (possibly 18″?) are super chic.